We have various names for it in Nigeria: ikebe; bum-bum; nyash; ‘assenal.’ This just shows you that buttocks matter. Yes, buttocks matter, both to the guys and ladies. Both from…
Man & Woman
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A few weeks ago, I was having a discussion with my brother-in-law and he straight out called the president of an African country a “woman wrapper”. Naturally, I asked him…
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Every year, the fourteenth day of the month of February has millions across the world presenting their loved ones with candy, flowers, chocolates and other lovely gifts. In many countries,…
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I was moved to tears as I watched raped victims and their families narrate their agonizing experience in the hands of rapists to members of the House of Representatives on…
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Over the past century, the position of women in human affairs has received lots of attention. There has been a delineation into several camps and several groups, each with different…
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Not all husbands are fathers. That a man gave birth to a child legitimately or illegitimately does not make him a father. The man could be awesome, he could have …
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It has become glaringly evident that some societies are slowly descending into a deepening abyss of hate, ignorance and intolerance – so much so that it boggles the mind…
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Some husbands feel they have god-like authority over their wives and are justified in disciplining them if they refuse to “obey” or “submit” to their authority. In their sick, twisted …
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I’ve seen that this feminism of a thing is becoming another religion that is gradually creeping into our clime and many people will be killing each other for it soon…
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Folks, this homosexual issue is one we have to face squarely. Why are these people the way they are? Does it have a spiritual undertone? Homosexuality has been around for …
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The wave of mass marrying-off of (poor) women which seems to have become a new fad in some northern states – read Zamfara, Kano and Sokoto states – in Nigeria …
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This past Wednesday, Goodluck Ebele Jonathan elevated crassness and primitiveness to the highest level imaginable by signing into law a bill banning homosexuality in Nigeria…
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Why should relationship calamity stop us from loving? We cannot say because we have made wrong choices historically we won’t love. If we continue to do things that some people …
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What this piece calls for is a bit of humanity; the humanity in us that will break the dark covering of violent intolerance of homosexuals in Africa. Homosexuality should not …
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Irrespective of the community where it’s taking place, marriage calls for a big occasion. Singing, merriment and dancing characterise marriage ceremonies in Nigeria…
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Recently, I read 2 articles by 2 top execs in the U.S. saying it is impossible for women to have it all citing examples of women leaving the workforce in …